Published 11th December 2023, Relationship Management 

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So many of us get stuck in relationships and marriages that just don't fit us anymore; as humans, we are forever growing, so sadly, sometimes we have to leave people behind because they were only meant for a short period. There are so many different ways you can look at this; as I have mentioned before in previous Blog Posts, sometimes we get into relationships with the wrong people because we don't favor ourselves enough; however, regardless of the reason, every negative has a positive, so whatever the reason, you will learn eventually, and they will lead you to the one.  Let's not make this post about what could have been; let's make it about what you could have if you do things the right way. I am no guru but I deal with relationship management, whether in business or love, so I understand relationships. I have also learned my own lessons in my life, so the experience is there for all to see. Navigating the intricate path from a casual relationship to a committed one is a journey that can have complexities and nuances, to say the least. In the initial stages, casual relationships often revolve around spontaneity and light-hearted interactions. However, as two individuals start to grow closer, the need for open communication becomes paramount. Both partners must express their expectations, desires, and boundaries, which helps create a transparent environment. This mutual exchange lays the foundation for a deeper connection, allowing each person to understand the other's perspective on commitment.

Although not one relationship fits all, from a friend standpoint, it is the best way to lay the best foundations. Many of us are so desperate to have the best-looking guy in our arms or the best-looking woman with the best body that we forget the fundamentals that make a relationship long-standing. Of course, I don't deny that you need to find the person attractive, but actual attractiveness comes from intelligence, openness, love, respect, and loyalty. It would help if you had someone that understands you, understands your negatives and your positives, but accepts them. Some will say well, why should I accept negatives in someone? I am afraid that is what love is; pure love comes from the standpoint of acceptance; it doesn't come from saying, "Well, I love myself more than to accept someone's negatives." Then I'm afraid you haven't quite grasped pure love. Now, if someone's negatives are highly abusive, then, of course, you should not accept it. But no matter who you meet, they will all have things to work on, but you need to be the person that makes them see that this is another substantial compartment of love. This is why being friends is the best form of action; you will get to know them on a deeper level, and then when it's time to take that relationship to the next level, you should have the foundations in place. As I have said before, and this is only my opinion, sex or any intercourse shouldn't be taken part in. Why? Because when you start down that road, everything is based on lust and desire, not love. You can't honestly know you love someone deeply unless you remove the lust and desire. I've had so many people say to me, well, how can you know if you are sexually compatible? Believe me, if you love someone enough to not have lust and desires towards someone, but you love them unconditionally, then when you come to having sexual intercourse, it will be special; you will then make a family based on love, nothing else, which is my belief.

When it starts like a Casual relationship, it often thrives on shared experiences and fun outings, but to evolve into a committed bond, emotional vulnerability must be embraced. Opening up about fears, dreams, and past experiences fosters a deeper understanding and connection between partners. This willingness to share the more intricate facets of one's life cultivates a sense of trust, a fundamental building block of commitment. As the relationship progresses, the importance of defining the nature of the commitment cannot be overstated. Conversations about exclusivity, future plans, and the level of emotional involvement help both partners align their expectations. This clarity mitigates misunderstandings and lays the groundwork for a shared vision of the relationship's trajectory. While these discussions may be challenging, they are essential for ensuring that both individuals are on the same page, reducing the likelihood of heartache or disappointment. Navigating the transition from casual to committed also involves acknowledging and respecting each other's autonomy. Despite the deepening connection, it is imperative to maintain a sense of individuality. Encouraging personal growth and supporting each other's pursuits outside the relationship contributes to a healthy dynamic. Striking the delicate balance between togetherness and independence is beautiful to a sustainable, thriving, committed relationship.
Challenges are an inevitable part of any relationship journey, and handling them with resilience is vital. Conflicts may arise, but viewing them as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles is an excellent way of dealing with them. It's so easy now to just run away from someone and think that someone else is around the corner; however, if you have the belief and staying power to work through it, you never know how amazing it could be. Effective communication during difficult times fosters understanding and strengthens the bond, making the relationship more resilient in the face of adversity. Ultimately, the journey from casual to committed is a dynamic process that requires continuous effort and dedication from both partners. It involves a delicate dance of emotions, communication, and mutual respect. Embracing the evolving nature of the relationship, celebrating milestones, and adapting to change are integral components of this transformative journey. By navigating this path with intentionality and a shared commitment to growth, individuals can forge a connection that withstands the test of time, evolving into a fulfilling and enduring committed relationship.
So, there you go:
Be open, honest, loyal.
Set healthy boundaries.
Have things in common that can grow larger over time.
There always must be some alignment, but just be mindful that it's healthy.

Love and Light x

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