Published 9th December 2023,  Spiritual Growth and Awareness/Relationship Management 

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I am sure this topic will intrigue many and offend some, but sadly, the truth hurts.
I am an open book; I talk about my struggles, I express my emotions, and I am learning lessons. Some lessons are hard to handle, and some are easy to let go of. I want to make this clear before I write this blog post: I am NOT judging anyone; these are my experiences, and these have been my battles, therefore, they are my opinions, which I am entitled to in the 3D world and the spiritual world; this is my birthright and the birthright of everyone else. Many of you won't know my life story, many of you are not interested in my life story, and that's ok, but like many in my field of work, I have gone through many highs and lows of going along what I like to call a Spiritual Healing Journey. This doesn't make me better than anyone else. I am made of the substances as you, flesh, blood, and bone; however, in my life plan, I choose to have two lives in one and then share my experiences, knowledge, wisdom, and love with others so they can then make their own decisions. Whether I trigger you or not to change certain aspects of your life is up to you. I don't have control over you or want control over you.
Two lives in one, strange, right? I am not the only one on this spiritual journey; there are thousands, if not millions, having two lives in one. So what is two lives in one? It's straightforward: at the beginning of your life, you sin, you live, you do everything that you aren't really meant to do, and then you are woken up by your soul by something happening in life. You rebuild and create a life without sin, you release traumas of past lives, karma if you want to call it that, you release traumas from within this lifetime, you find god, the universe, or the creator whoever, you reference to it, and you carry on the second part of your life, being structured, clean, praying, meditating and believing in the mighty power of god, the universe or the creator again whatever you like to call it.
This leads me to the subject of today's blog post: Masturbation. Now, I know many of you feel this will make you very uncomfortable, but remember, being uncomfortable is good; nothing is meant to be easy; if life was easy, you would go nowhere; life is meant to be tough because this is meant to push you to reach your full potential, this is why many in my belief suffer from Mental health because their soul is fed up and bored. After all, when life gets tough, many give up and then get depressed, but it isn't depression; it's your soul saying suck it up and push forward. We will come onto this later on in this blog.
I want you to picture this: imagine you have a life from birth, and you get to fifteen years old, you start having sexual desires and lust over girls, which then leads you to masturbation; many would think this is standard practice and everyday life, but sadly this is what you are meant to think, it's called pulling the wool over your eyes. When you have lived two lives, and many haven't because they are still doing the same things as they were when they were fifteen years old, regardless if they are in a marriage or not? This is true. I see many clients that are masturbating while being married, and that's ok if you think it's ok, but I want you to ask yourself why you feel you need to do this while having a wife or husband? What comes into your mind when you feel like doing it? Next time you get the urge, think about it and reflect on it before you do it? Ask yourself why do you want to do it? What's making you want to do it? Why has this feeling come out of the blue? And why is it that in some cases, I have seen this, that as you progress with mastery in your life journey, in some cases, it can become worse? More masturbation? Harder subjects? You then start dreaming about women and lustful situations; I know people will say I have a high sexual drive; I like women too much, these are fabrications that you make up to make yourself feel better; in some ways, you are being told these things, to make you feel like it's ok. As I said, you are in charge of your own destinies; I can't interfere, but believe me, as the earth wakes up, more and more people realize, "Hang on." I shouldn't be doing this.

In the 3d world, I have no doubt that Masturbation is an addiction; no, actually, let me rephrase that: pornography/Images/Ads, anything that promotes you to desire or lust is the addiction. The addiction isn't you actually masturbating; it's your self-control, your self-discipline. It revolves totally around how you view yourself. Do I believe it's wrong to have sex before marriage now? Yes, I do. Did I before? No, I didn't. I have met many women over the years, and I can see clearly that many of them were through LUST and DESIRE, not love. This brings me to my next point: love, everything, regardless of whether you are on a spiritual healing journey; most decisions you make in life need to come from the standpoint of love. To not masturbate comes from the fact you love yourself, to not masturbate when you are in a marriage or a committed relationship comes from the love you have for the other person and the love you have for yourself, to not masturbate and to not have sex with that person if you are not married, but still turn up every day loving, respectful and loyal means that you are devoted to that person, and everything is done through love.
Please ask yourself this and reflect on it for ten minutes. In the generations before us, men and women would get married before any sexual intercourse; if you research, it wasn't a done thing; it happened, I am sure, but it wasn't a done thing! But ask yourself this: as the world has entered the digital age, hasn't it become more accessible to commit sins? Hasn't it become more complex, dirtier, more profound than ever? Ask yourself what the devil's playground is. If you were a negative energy, where would you wait for possible victims! I am just putting that out there: everything is energy; every solid thing you see, even videos and visuals, is energy.
Now, I am not saying for one moment you are processed by satan, haha, no, not at all, but what I am saying is everything has a meaning and purpose; if something is too easy, you need to ask yourself why is it too easy? As nothing is meant to be easy, that will give you benefit. Is this challenging? No, not at all; it's accessible. Also, I am not saying for one minute that it's easy many have struggled with this, but if you get a grip on SELF, you can do it. You can leave it behind for good. Will these energies and thoughts try to tempt you? They will, but it can be done if you are open-minded enough on your spiritual healing journey or just open-minded enough to think logically when you have the urge. I would say read the bible and pray all these things will help, but I won't and do not promote any religion or the church. However, I do believe in the lord jesus christ as the son of god, who is the son of god, universe or the creator, as much as my brothers and sisters believe in Budda, Allah, Ganesha, and many more; it is my belief these are all sent from the same source, and they all say Masturbation isn't a great idea.
When something is based on lust or desire, you are not thinking with a logical mind, and this is where you become stuck in the same routines, attracting the same energies time after time after time, which then makes you depressed, as they say. Still, it isn't depression; it's your soul that is sad that you aren't waking up and learning; this is why I and others across the world are here to wake you up and get you thinking differently. I have no desire for money and fame; my desire comes from helping others, giving me the lust for life, which fulfills my purpose.
What many of you don't realize is this: you are masturbating, living in lust and desire. You then attract the wrong people, which doesn't mean they are bad people; they are just wrong for you; this means you are being blocked. It's my belief this is part of blocking your blessings. There has to be light and dark, yin and yang, wrong and right, good and evil; that's balance! But what will you give into? Ask yourself? What is your soul telling you? Why do you think so many life coaches are on the earth now? Why do you think therapists are turning to life coaching? It's not that it's fashion; it's because people realize that human souls need to be saved and taught, not created into functioning robots that therapy can teach from a textbook, and for all the therapists out there reading this, I have nothing but respect for you, I love you all, this isn't me throwing stones at you, this is merely my own opinion.
I will leave this blog post here today, but I want you to think about what I said today: don't open yourself up to possible things that don't want you to succeed; some of you may have very BIG purposes in this world and lifetime, and some of you might have a beautiful life to live, but remember we ALL have a purpose, whether it's big or small, it could be absolutely anything. Trust in yourself, find strength within and you can leave it behind.
If you have any difficulties in this area, book a call. We offer a free 45-minute conversation; from that, we can put a plan together for you to get through it.
Wishing you love and light x

Conclusion

If you want to get a grip on this situation, there are some easy things to do. First, you block all websites on every device you have, set a long password you won't remember, and then throw it away. When thoughts arise in your mind, you sit for ten minutes; you do not react; you are still. In those ten minutes, you reflect on why this has come into your head? Where did it come from? What made it happen? Then, you re-focus your mind on a different subject; you must take your time with this, so don't rush. Remember, it may come from emotions, as we can reach for comfort through food or masturbation in times of emotion, but the deep root is how you view yourself. It would help if you practiced Self-Love, Self-Belief, Self-Disapline, Self-Worth, Self-Compassion, Self-Gratitude, Self-Confidence, Self-Acceptance, and Self-Respect. Live in love, not lust and desire; easier said than done, I know, but it isn't easy because it's meant to happen. Seeing is knowing and knowing is the seeing.

May God, The Creator, The Universe support you on your journey.

I love you all x 

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